Downsizing with dignity

Downsizing with dignity? Seems a million miles away from many people’s recent experience. Horror stories abound of staff being made redundant over the phone, via sms messages, en masse in hastily organised meetings. Makes you wonder whether anyone in management is actually planning this most traumatic of organisational events. In a crowd of redundant executives and managers, trying to find someone who has been made redundant in a dignified fashion during which they felt as though they were treated as a human being with feelings, family, and an uncertain future is not easy. “Ready, Fire, Aim” seems to be the order of the day. Using the cleaver, cutting without regard for collateral damage instead of the surgically precise scalpel causes untold and lasting damage to the organisation, its reputation and its people. It is possible to downsize with dignity, and with the necessary speed. But it takes strength of leadership character, courage to plan with a view to the future and not just today and the wisdom to decide what are the mission-critical roles and who are the best people to fill them. What has been your experience, or the experience of someone close to you? Downsized with dignity or treated badly? ---------------------------------------------------------

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on June 1, 2009, 12:19 pm
I have come across downsizing handled with different degrees of dignity, from the type where colleagues were not allowed to their desks, collecting their belongings at the entrance, to situations where the 'departed' were treated fairly and with respect. Without question, the permanent negative propaganda for the organisation in the former cases did significant harm.

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Posted by  
on June 2, 2009, 7:16 pm
This seems to be a common theme. It's amazing that organisations and in particular their senior executives are oblivious to the damage they're causing!

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Posted by  
on June 2, 2009, 3:35 pm
I find it enlightening to see that someone has finally adressed this topic. By downsizing in an unproper manner a company can easily get scrutized in a negative way by the general public simply due to word of mouth. hence, bad advertising!

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on June 2, 2009, 4:10 pm
I think even when CEOs do - 'downsize with dignity' the staff who has been made redundant can still feel as if they have been done wrong....
Last year I was made redundant from my job and though the company's state was very transparent, and I had a fair warning, I still had to make several preparations for unemployment half way around the world from my 'home'.
The economy is tough and I don't blame anyone for the situation, but knowing that I was to be without a job by no fault of my own was not an easy bite to swallow. And not knowing how to meet commitments of family, accommodation, etc. was very un nerving, there were several unknowns that my previous employer did not help me deal with.
So yes, I have heard some of real horror stories out there, but any way you put it - unemployment is tough to handle.

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on June 2, 2009, 7:19 pm
You're right Emily. However, we do get through it and eventually land on our feet again. In some ways i worry more about the people who leave work each night wondering if they will have a job by the following night. Simple honest communication can go a long way to alleviating peoples' fears. Many organisations struggle to confront the brutal facts and manage downsizing like a dawn raid or by stealth. Neither way does anyone for morale or indeed their reputations.

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on December 17, 2009, 3:29 pm
Go through your phone book, call people and ask them to drive you to the airport. The ones who will drive you are your true friends. The rest aren't bad people; they're just acquaintances.

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Posted by   www
on December 17, 2009, 10:38 pm
At a dinner party one should eat wisely but not too well, and talk well but not too wisely.

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Posted by   www
on December 18, 2009, 2:25 am
Being in politics is like being a football coach. You have to be smart enough to understand the game, and dumb enough to think it's important.

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Posted by   www
on December 18, 2009, 2:40 am
No one goes there nowadays, it's too crowded.

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Posted by   www
on December 18, 2009, 2:42 am
A mother is not a person to lean on but a person to make leaning unnecessary.

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Posted by   www
on December 18, 2009, 2:44 am
The most important thing she'd learned over the years was that there was no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.

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Posted by   www
on December 18, 2009, 1:31 pm
Inspiration does exist, but it must find you working.

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Posted by   www
on December 18, 2009, 4:34 pm
A hobby a day keeps the doldrums away.

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Posted by   www
on December 20, 2009, 2:37 pm
Let us so live that when we come to die even the undertaker will be sorry.

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Posted by   www
on December 20, 2009, 10:10 pm
Do it now. It is not safe to leave a generous feeling to the cooling influences of the world.

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Posted by   www
on December 20, 2009, 10:12 pm
I would be the most content if my children grew up to be the kind of people who think decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves.

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Posted by   www
on December 21, 2009, 11:24 am
Whoso would be a man must be a nonconformist.

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Posted by   www
on December 21, 2009, 11:24 am
All programmers are playwrights and all computers are lousy actors.

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Posted by   www
on December 21, 2009, 4:32 pm
Ordinarily he was insane, but he had lucid moments when he was merely stupid.

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Posted by   www
on December 21, 2009, 8:34 pm
My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she was sixty. She's ninety-seven now, and we don't know where the hell she is.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 5:22 am
Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself and know that everything in this life has a purpose.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 5:22 am
A neurosis is a secret that you don't know you are keeping.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 5:22 am
Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 5:23 am
We are what we repeatedly do.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 5:23 am
You know what's interesting about Washington? It's the kind of place where second-guessing has become second nature.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 5:25 am
Everything of importance has been said before by somebody who did not discover it.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 5:26 am
I say luck is when an opportunity comes along, and you're prepared for it.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 8:39 am
It is a paradoxical but profoundly true and important principle of life that the most likely way to reach a goal is to be aiming not at that goal itself but at some more ambitious goal beyond it.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 8:41 am
To have a right to do a thing is not at all the same as to be right in doing it.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 8:42 am
All animals are equal but some animals are more equal than others.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 3:15 pm
Misquotations are the only quotations that are never misquoted.

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Posted by   www
on December 22, 2009, 11:27 pm
Reading well is one of the great pleasures that solitude can afford you.

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Posted by   www
on December 23, 2009, 3:16 am
It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare.

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Posted by   www
on December 23, 2009, 6:58 am
We inhereit from our ancestors gifts so often taken for granted... Each of us contains within... this inheritance of soul. We are links between the ages, containing past and present expectations, sacred memories and future promise.

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Posted by   www
on December 23, 2009, 6:59 am
Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.

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Posted by   www
on December 23, 2009, 11:05 am
Some editors are failed writers, but so are most writers.

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Posted by   www
on December 23, 2009, 11:06 am
You have no control over what the other guy does. You only have control over what you do.

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Posted by   www
on December 23, 2009, 2:59 pm
Treat all disasters as if they were trivialities but never treat a triviality as if it were a disaster.

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Posted by   www
on December 23, 2009, 11:04 pm
The mellow sweetness of pumpkin pie off a prison spoon is something you will never forget.

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Posted by   www
on December 23, 2009, 11:05 pm
Never rely on the glory of the morning nor the smiles of your mother-in-law.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 2:14 am
I find television very educating. Every time somebody turns on the set, I go into the other room and read a book.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 2:14 am
Do not believe that he who seeks to comfort you lives untroubled among the simple and quiet words that sometimes do you good. His life has much difficulty... Were it otherwise he would never have been able to find those words.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 2:15 am
What can you say about a society that says that God is dead and Elvis is alive?

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 2:15 am
You must not think me necessarily foolish because I am facetious, nor will I consider you necessarily wise because you are grave.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 6:18 am
He attacked everything in life with a mix of extrordinary genius and naive incompetence, and it was often difficult to tell which was which.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 10:23 am
In all recorded history there has not been one economist who has had to worry about where the next meal would come from.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 10:25 am
Could you imagine how horrible things would be if we always told others how we felt? Life would be intolerably bearable.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 10:25 am
If you really do put a small value upon yourself, rest assured that the world will not raise your price.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 10:25 am
Feet, why do I need them if I have wings to fly?

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 10:26 am
TV is chewing gum for the eyes.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 10:26 am
Know, first, who you are; and then adorn yourself accordingly.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 10:29 am
It is not enough to do good; one must do it the right way.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 10:29 am
TV is chewing gum for the eyes.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 10:30 am
Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.

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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 10:31 am
The only difference between the Democrats and the Republicans is that the Democrats allow the poor to be corrupt, too.

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on December 24, 2009, 5:13 pm
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Posted by   www
on December 24, 2009, 11:03 pm
That would be a good thing for them to cut on my tombstone: Wherever she went, including here, it was against her better judgment.

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Posted by   www
on December 25, 2009, 3:08 am
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things.

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Posted by   www
on December 25, 2009, 9:09 am
Preserving health by too severe a rule is a worrisome malady.

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Posted by   www
on December 25, 2009, 1:29 pm
Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.

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Posted by   www
on December 25, 2009, 6:34 pm
Most of the basic truths of life sound absurd at first hearing.

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Posted by   www
on December 25, 2009, 6:35 pm
Speak when you are angry--and you will make the best speech you'll ever regret.

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Posted by   www
on December 26, 2009, 5:09 am
You create your opportunities by asking for them.

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Posted by   www
on December 26, 2009, 9:55 am
Humor is the only test of gravity, and gravity of humor; for a subject which will not bear raillery is suspicious, and a jest which will not bear serious examination is false wit.

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Posted by   www
on December 26, 2009, 1:25 pm
But be, as you have been, my happiness...

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Posted by   www
on December 26, 2009, 4:38 pm
There are no wise few. Every aristocracy that has ever existed has behaved, in all essential points, exactly like a small mob.

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Posted by   www
on December 26, 2009, 8:14 pm
I have lost friends, some by death... others through sheer inability to cross the street.

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Posted by   www
on December 26, 2009, 11:29 pm
We cannot deny the facts of nature, but we should certainly try to improve on them.

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Posted by   www
on December 27, 2009, 3:26 am
There is nothing more demoralizing than a small but adequate income.

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Posted by   www
on December 27, 2009, 7:10 am
Seize opportunity by the beard, for it is bald behind.

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Posted by   www
on December 27, 2009, 11:09 am
There are no wise few. Every aristocracy that has ever existed has behaved, in all essential points, exactly like a small mob.

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Posted by   www
on December 27, 2009, 11:11 am
They are ill discoverers that think there is no land, when they can see nothing but sea.

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Posted by   www
on December 27, 2009, 3:31 pm
I'm glad I didn't have to fight in any war. I'm glad I didn't have to pick up a gun. I'm glad I didn't get killed or kill somebody. I hope my kids enjoy the same lack of manhood.

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Posted by   www
on December 27, 2009, 7:30 pm
Even the best of friends need time apart.

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Posted by   www
on December 27, 2009, 11:22 pm
A billion here, a billion there, pretty soon it adds up to real money.

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Posted by   www
on December 28, 2009, 3:05 am
Life is a great big canvas; throw all the paint on it you can.

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Posted by   www
on December 28, 2009, 7:03 am
The first precept was never to accept a thing as true until I knew it as such without a single doubt.

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Posted by   www
on December 28, 2009, 7:03 am
Refuse to be ill. Never tell people you are ill; never own it to yourself. Illness is one of those things which a man should resist on principle.

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Posted by   www
on December 28, 2009, 7:04 am
The aim of life is self-development. To realize one's nature perfectly - that is what each of us is here for.

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Posted by   www
on December 28, 2009, 10:22 am
It's a rare person who wants to hear what he doesn't want to hear.

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Posted by   www
on December 28, 2009, 2:01 pm
Things won are done; joy's soul lies in the doing.

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Posted by   www
on December 28, 2009, 5:40 pm
I lived what most people call the good life. I was happy, but deep inside I always felt that, with the short amount of time we are given to live and love in this world, we spend too much time loving things instead of people.

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Posted by   www
on February 3, 2010, 4:02 am
For me, it's that I contributed, ... That I'm on this planet doing some good and making people happy. That's to me the most important thing, that my hour of television is positive and upbeat and an antidote for all the negative stuff going on in life.

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Posted by   www
on February 3, 2010, 7:55 am
Nothing inspires forgiveness quite like revenge.

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Posted by   www
on February 3, 2010, 4:35 pm
If you aren't fired with enthusiasm, you will be fired with enthusiasm.

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Posted by   www
on February 4, 2010, 1:59 am
It is hard to fight an enemy who has outposts in your head.

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Posted by   www
on February 4, 2010, 2:02 am
A man is too apt to forget that in this world he cannot have everything. A choice is all that is left him.

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Posted by   www
on February 4, 2010, 2:03 am
Writing gives you the illusion of control, and then you realize it's just an illusion, that people are going to bring their own stuff into it.

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Posted by   www
on February 4, 2010, 2:03 am
All great truths begin as blasphemies.

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Posted by   www
on February 4, 2010, 10:27 am
It is easier to exclude harmful passions than to rule them, and to deny them admittance than to control them after they have been admitted.

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Posted by   www
on February 4, 2010, 10:28 am
Good company and good discourse are the very sinews of virtue.

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Posted by   www
on February 4, 2010, 10:31 am
It is fortunate to be of high birth, but it is no less so to be of such character that people do not care to know whether you are or are not.

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Posted by   www
on February 4, 2010, 10:35 am
Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.

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Posted by   www
on May 19, 2010, 4:19 am
The release of atomic energy has not created a new problem. It has merely made more urgent the necessity of solving an existing one.

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Posted by   www
on May 21, 2010, 5:19 am
The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want.

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Posted by   www
on May 21, 2010, 5:20 am
I said to myself, I have things in my head that are not like what anyone has taught me - shapes and ideas so near to me - so natural to my way of being and thinking that it hasn't occurred to me to put them down. I decided to start anew, to strip away what I had been taught.

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Posted by   www
on May 21, 2010, 8:50 pm
The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.

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Posted by   www
on May 21, 2010, 8:50 pm
Go through your phone book, call people and ask them to drive you to the airport. The ones who will drive you are your true friends. The rest aren't bad people; they're just acquaintances.

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Posted by   www
on May 21, 2010, 8:51 pm
Our lives teach us who we are.

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Posted by   www
on May 31, 2010, 12:39 pm
So act that your principle of action might safely be made a law for the whole world.

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Posted by   www
on May 31, 2010, 6:16 pm
The habit of giving only enhances the desire to give.

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Posted by   www
on June 2, 2010, 8:25 pm
Sometimes you can't see yourself clearly until you see yourself through the eyes of others.

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Posted by   www
on June 5, 2010, 12:31 am
The perfect bureaucrat everywhere is the man who manages to make no decisions and escape all responsibility.

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Posted by   www
on June 5, 2010, 12:32 am
The older I grow, the less important the comma becomes. Let the reader catch his own breath.

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Posted by   www
on June 7, 2010, 3:08 am
The release of atomic energy has not created a new problem. It has merely made more urgent the necessity of solving an existing one.

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Posted by   www
on June 8, 2010, 11:29 pm
I prefer the company of peasants because they have not been educated sufficiently to reason incorrectly.

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Posted by   www
on June 9, 2010, 12:02 pm
A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of.

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Posted by   www
on June 9, 2010, 12:05 pm
Jealousy is all the fun you think they had.

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Posted by   www
on June 9, 2010, 12:12 pm
Some editors are failed writers, but so are most writers.

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Posted by   www
on June 11, 2010, 3:16 am
Because we don't think about future generations, they will never forget us.

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